Please cancel Grandma's party!

My Grandmother is turning 90 next week and my family has been plannign a party for months. I'm so proud of her accomplishment, so glad she's still with us. I wish I could fly over from Italy to hug her and see everyone in Oregon at the party next month. One uncle will fly from Connecticut, and one from California. My sisters will drive hours to Grandma's Retired living village.

I keep bringing up how we need to cancel the party. There are 15 Coronavirus cases in Oregon already and 67 tests pending. The elderly are the most vulnerable and while she's plenty feisty, she's not plenty fit. I feel like the dark voice of doom no one wants to be caught listening to, but I don't want the message at her party to be "Happy last birthday, Grandma!"